I wish people would confirm/reject smart matches. It doesn't take long if you do it regularly, and it's just really annoying to have a bunch of matches sitting there that no one has responded to. I have ignored all trees which only have a basic account and can't confirm anyway. I've also ignored any tree which hasn't been touched since before 2011. And still I have 4382 matches which I've confirmed but haven't by others. Thanks for reading. End of rant.
Frankly, it does not bother me one bit if some other site confirms my matches, or not. I either confirm or reject all my smartmatches and glean any info I can from the other site. After that, who cares what the other site manager does with my offer of help to him/her? Charles
It's just irritating to have the list of all the family trees which have not been confirmed. It's a personal issue I guess, but I don't want to ignore them if we can still help each other. It also bothers me not to respond to the confirmations of other people. Like I said, it's not that hard and only takes a few seconds. I can understand that people wouldn't be responding if I had fifty trees like other people, but I only have one.
I understand how you feel. It used to bother me, too. But, many people are not avid genologists. They are just doing a little to have fun and see what they can learn about their relatives before becoming bored with it and ignoring it. Also, many people have jobs or other things to do and can't devote a great deal of time to genology, so they get to it when they can and when it crosses their mind to do so. Fortunately, I'm now retired and have lots of time to spend on researching, so it's not a problem for me to confirm or reject matches. But I've learned in my life that you should only worry about the things you have control over and let the rest of it go. It makes you a lot happier! Best wishes, Charles.
You are right, but it is really annoying too that far to many matches are being published. Then one gets lazy and just leave it. I do not understand why we get all these obviously wrong matches. This is really something for Myheritage to work on and progress.
Jeg er ny på MyHeritage og har fået beskeder om, at der er match mellem mit og dit (Storm-p's) stamtræ.
Men jeg kan kun godkende matches hvis jeg opgraderer til Premium - det havde jeg ikke lige tænkt mig at gøre umiddelbart. Du har øjensynlig været med længe. Er du tilfreds med sitet og programmet?
Pudsigt du spørger! Jeg har netop ved seneste match udskrevet siden efter at have bekræftet den for selv at finde ud af, præcis hvordan familien hænger sammen. Umiddelbart kan jeg nemlig ikke se det. Et familirtræ bliver meget hurtigt vidt forgrenet med personer, man ikke aner hvem er. Din mands familie, onkler og tanker mv., deres familier kommer automatisk med, og så gifter man sig til andre navne. Når jeg har bekræftet matvhen er det fordi mit slægtstræ kom op med samme person og data, men lige hvordan har jeg ikke lige haft tid til at udforske. Det vil jeg dog gøre ved lejlighed, for jeg laver nemlig slægtsbøger i et helt andet program, som jeg har lavet og givet til mine børn. Her kommer alle "de uvedkommende" familiemedlemmer ikke med, kun personens egen gren, men det er jo smart nok, at man så kan vælge en bestemt gren og følge den. Det bliver dog meget hurtigt kompliceret, og som nu, så er det ofte svært at gennemskue lige hvordan familien er skruet sammen ude i de fjernere led, som sådan set ikke har noget med ens egen familie at gøre. Når jeg finder ud af det skal jeg sende dig en mail, jeg har bare ikke tid lige i øjeblikket. mvh Birgit
nothing on this site seems to work like it suppose to....I try to answer people but most of the time my smart matches wont even work....and 80% of the time they are wrong anyway....so it is no wonder people are just ignoring them half the time!!
Doesn't it annoy you just having it right there on your homepage telling you that you have names to confirm? It really annoys me, for the same reason it annoys me to have a bunch of names just dangling out there waiting for confirmation from others. Hard to believe it doesn't bother other people.
What annoys me more is that I have almost 5000 matches -- which started out at probably 10,000 matches until I rejected the rest (at 2 clicks per reject).