I married my wife 1974. We divorced 1983. We married again 2004 the same day 4th of May. If i make a notice of the divorce it looks that my new marriage is not valid. So I had to take the notice away. She was noted as my ex-wife in the reports. So I had to make a comment (only) about the divorce.
Do you understand the problem now? Otherwise maybe I can explain the situation better if you ask me to do so.