Julie, If you are not married to him then I don't think you can follow thru with this, Unless you, as your son's guardian , goes to the adoption office and signs one of those looking for lost sibblings and family forms on his (son's) behalf. Also ask the person at the adoption agency how you can get medical records for your son's sake. You probably won't get results there but they could let you know from there what you can and cannot do. As for your son's father being mad at them for giving him up, He needs to realize that sometimes that may have been for the best, In my case it wasn't but it wasn't good to stay with them either, I did however get the information I needed for medical purposes and DID find more half brothers and sisters that I never knew I had and a few of those meetings have resulted in a great friendship.
I am pretty sure that adoption records in the UK have been unsealed, and are available for the asking. If your children's birth certificates have the adoptee's name on it as their father, then I would imagine you have pretty good legal standing to get the information.
Here is a link to OPSI - Office of Public Sector Information, Adoption and Children Act of 2002:
hi i was born march 12, 1985 in st. petersburg, fl. My mother's last name was Goodrich. She lived in the Sarasota area. My bio. father's name might be Jake, but I don't know for sure, and he's hispanic of some sort.
Hi, QDM. I'm Lisa, a 1963 Florida adoptee. Just wanted to stop by and introduce myself and ask how your search it going.
I'm putting together a page here on myHeritage that will have adoption search tips, tricks, hints, helpful sites, etc.. If you have found helpful resource, or have advice for other adoptees, please send me a brief email so that I can publish it on the page.
A very helpful thing you could send is the links to Iowa public records, search groups, etc...
I don't know much about webmastering, so don't laugh to hard if it starts out rather amateurish.
Your friend and fellow adoptee,
Florida Adoptee ISO bFamily, info
Born January 1963, Gainesville, FL
ISO Sandra Strickland [maiden name], est yr of birth 1941. Has completed at least a 2 yr college degree, possibly more. Was in Gainesville attending University of Florida. May have come to UF from Indiana or Georgia. Strawberry blonde hair, hazel eyes, 5'5", 110 lbs, large bust, short temper. Only one sibling, a younger brother.
ISO birthFather - who was a 2nd yr Law School student at my DOB, at "nearby" university - presumably UF. Not very tall, should be easy to spot in a group photo of UF Law Class of 1964. Brown hair and eyes. Might have been Catholic. Was definitely from FL.
I was adopted in 1955 in Des Moines, Iowa. Biologial parents surname was (is) Patterson.
I need info. on health records. If there is anyone out there who knows anything about this... please let me know?
My birth mothers name was Connie, born in N.M. Birth fathers name might have been James, Des Moines, IA.
The information the family was given was that they were college students... other than that? Nothing.